You’re so fucking sexy.
Your kiss. Your touch.
Everything you do…
I apologize for being so flaky lately. Daddy and I just moved into a wonderful new apartment and I started a new job with BMW. Things have been chaotic.
I’ve noticed recently that the sexual side of our relationship has been less passionate in recent months. Well not so much less passionate as lacking the kink I so desperately crave. We’ve been working on it with some success. How do all of you feel about this issue? How have you put the kink back into your 24/7 relationships?
"If you so much as whimper, my little whore, I will pull my cock out of your soaking little cunt and take your little virgin ass without mercy. Are we clear?"
"Uh huh! Uh huh! Yes, Sir!"
I’m going to break your question into two parts so I can answer them individually.
I used the words “True Dom” because that’s how the question was framed. I don’t actually believe there’s such a thing as a “True Dom.” There are an infinite varieties of Domination and whatever the persons practicing it feel comfortable with, that’s what works. As long as it’s safe, consensual and sane.
I voiced the safe word question like that because that is my belief. I’m happy to know your relationship has never needed one. I think this phrase though, says it all:
"He knows me better than I know myself and is always able to judge when a scene should stop."
If your Dom knows you well enough to know that then by all means don’t have one. I write my replies knowing that the vast majority of my audience is discovering or has discovered BDSM in the last few years or months and aren’t life long experts (neither am I for that matter.) I write my questions knowing a lot of you have just started or are starting with someone new. If you discover that you have one of those rare connections where you know the other person on such a deep level immediately then by all means use that knowledge and forego safe words. Even on the few occasions I have had that I always ask for and remember safe words.
I like to push buttons anon, I like to test limits and I like to shock who I’m with and I do so with more abandon knowing they have a safety net should they chose to use it.
Remember the word ratio?
Most cultures mark important dates by lighting a candle. So when they come out for you dear, don’t think it’s because I want to torture you.
Know it’s because I consider you important enough to celebrate.
I’m never talking to you again forever, ok!
"Aww, sweetie. I bet you’ll forgive daddy as soon as you can sit comfortably again."
Just the beginning darling
Oh, this is one of my favorites.